Mary Beth Writes

I had to do an errand this morning that was in the neighborhood of a Stein’s yard and garden store. I’d already looked online at several seed companies. All seemed to feature whackadoodle high prices as well as warnings about no substitutions and delayed shipments. That was discouraging.

I put on my Big-Girl mask and went into the store at 10AM (there were three customers in the whole place) and bought the seeds on my list as well as seeds not on my list. 

I had forgotten about Four o’clock flowers. I grew them back when my kids were little. They grew right next to the playhouse that the kids built with scrap lumber. Boy, that was a house that wasn’t Lil’ Tykes. That playhouse was scrappy, the beat-up walkway where it resided was scrappy, there wasn’t full daylight, the dog ran back and forth right there – and those 4 o’clocks just bloomed and bloomed.  

Are flowers sometimes souvenirs you grow to remind yourself of the last time you grew them? Last year one hollyhock by my kitchen door just took off to grow nine feet tall! Len put a hook in the side of the house to hold it up. Nearly every woman who walked past it stopped a minute to tell me about playing hollyhock dolls when she was little.

Right now, most of us are becoming aware that the United States’ meat supply is being upended. Most meat is becoming a little or a lot more expensive.  In the frugal blogs I read, some people are going out of their way to buy larger than ordinary amounts of meat to put in their freezers against rising prices and short supplies.

There is a lot of American hypocrisy going on when we blame China’s “wet markets” for this pandemic. Yes, those markets of so many animals are dangerous and ought to be closed. 

But just as dangerous are our factory farms where animals are genetically engineered to produce the most meat the most cheaply. Factory farms are breeding grounds for the next pandemic.

So that meat some of us are rushing to buy right now – maybe we need to back off.

This week I am going to attempt a daring feat I have never done before. I have a stack of books on my nightstand.  I often dip into them to read for a few minutes, but then I go to the library and find fiction that will “take me away.” Our Waukesha Public Library (bless them) is kinda open again as of today. But one has to order books ahead, make a date and time slot to pick up one’s chosen books, there is no browsing.

This makes sense. But alas, how do I know what I want to read before I’ve started to read it?

So in this particular week I am going to read my own damn books. (Actually, two of the books in my stack are loaners from friends.)

Does anyone want to join me in this grueling commitment to just go ahead and read a book they have been meaning to read for a long time?



I have decided to cut way back on meat...again. I am not planning to eat any. I have some in The freezer and will continue to cook it for the other inhabitants of the house, dogs included. I just cannot stomach the idea of factory farms. I have a book on my nightstand that I have had kicking around for a couple of years, I decided to start reading it tomorrow. Might make a nice change from English murder mysteries on YouTube and Coronavirus stuff and covidiots.

I'll join you Mary Beth, I can see 5 books from my vantage point that I've either started to read or picked up thinking it would be a good read... Reading has never been easy for me it's more work than I would like it to be because my eyes don't focus like most people's do... It's like running a marathon and yet it's something I truly enjoy.... I'm pledging to finish "Blood, Bones & Butter" The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef by Gabrielle Hamilton... I tend to like reading about people who don't really follow the crowd , but choose to do things on their own terms... It's something Ms. Hamilton does in spades from what I've read so far... I could be friends with this Woman...

I mostly read books on my Kindle now and have accumulated quite a few "to be read." One was a bio of Georgia O'Keefe that I have been slowly working my way through. However, I have the desire to be "taken away" by good fiction too. I recommend reading the readers' reviews on Amazon. I find that that gives me a pretty good idea of whether I will enjoy a book. Then you can check your library to see if they have the book. I am currently very much enjoying M.L.Longworth's series of "Verlaque and Bonnet" mysteries that are set in Provence, France. Lots of attention to descriptions of good meals and wines, good character development, and interesting crimes to be solved without gore and car chases. You would definitely feel "taken away."

Big Girl mask —- haha— did they match ur big girl pantries?? Haha Love seed packets and all the pretty color they represent. I have plenty of unread books on my shelf too Meat supply. We need to clean our freezer out and see what we need
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I am going to do book recommendations inside these Quarantine Diaries. In the past, I've found my best recommends in - the comments in the Non-Consumer Advocate. I think there is something about people living carefully and cleverly - that they often like similar books. So pay attention Dear Readers/Friends. Books, movies, TV shows... coming up.

Hey, you guys! Some of you might like trading free books with others around the US, or even around the world!
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Thanks for this tip!

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Quarantine Diary #312

“You know me, I think there ought to be a big old tree right there. And let's give him a friend. Everybody needs a friend.” ― Bob Ross

This tree lives in Waukesha and stopped me in my tracks when I was out for a walk.


 When will this Quarantine Diary end? When Len and I drive out not wearing masks to go to a place where we will stay overnight. Just letting you know. FYI we started last year on Friday the 13th of March.


Quarantine Diary #308 1/15/2021

My life is pretty fine, and I bet yours is, too. Warm place to live. Food to eat. Friends to share and laugh with - even if we have to do it via Zoom.

At the same time, who isn’t feeling anxiety and dread? Will the white supremacist insurrectionist knobs attack the inaugural? Will they screw up state capitols and infrastructure? One lone guy blew up Nashville a mere three weeks ago. What the hell is going on?

Quarantine Diary #307 Brain Names

Remember when there was no autism? Sure, there were kids in our schools who were weirdly able to remember stuff, or were hard to control, or whose emotions triggered at the oddest time. We generally ignored those kids. Those of us who were kind did, anyways. Others bullied. 

Remember the mopey kids in high school who knew too much about depressing art and angsty music and sometimes killed themselves?

Quarantine Diary #306 Hunched Over & Paying Attention

I am going to write some Quarantine Diary entries again. There’s a lot going on and sometimes it helps to hear a small voice as well as the big voices of journalists, pundits, networks, the other public media we follow.

I have had a small headache off and on for days. I worried that I might have contracted Covid, except dang it, I haven’t gone anywhere! And then, thinking about it, I realized I am hunched over my phone much more than usual. These mild on-again, off-again headaches are from eyestrain and weird posture.

Rime and Treason

These photos were taken by Len on Monday in that other time and world that existed before the Trump gorgons mobbed the Capitol. (Gorgons existed in Greek literature. Gorgons are the poisonous siblings with hair of living snakes. Those who beheld them face-to-face turned to stone. Or were killed by being beaten by a fire extinguisher.)

I have been trying to write about that but it is too hard. There is so much that is clear and is informative. You are reading it as much as I am. Blessed be the journalists, right? 

Quarantine Diary #292 New Year's Eve

Many of us feel as if we are in limbo until Biden takes office. I don’t think you need me to say a lot about how long and hard this year has been; we’ve been in this dentist’s chair together.


Did you see how many days quarantine has lasted? 292 days.

So far.

This week I read a remarkable essay. On Natural Landscapes, Metaphorical Living, and Warlpiri Identity, by Barry Lopez. Life is weird. The day after I read it, Mr. Lopez died.

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